Well, I finally got back the results of my ancestry.com test and the answer was more obvious that I had even hoped. When I finally got the nerve to log in, I immediately looked at the DNA relative section. It was there, noting clear as day, in black and white what I had suspected – “C is your father.”
I asked my mom about him and she conceded that it “could” be him.
It looks like C had submitted his DNA to ancestry.com a couple of years ago and had logged in as recently as September. Now I don’t know what to do….do I reach out to him? What if he gets the email, “You have new DNA relatives” and he logs in to see this relationship? Based on what I can put together, he has no idea. Now that it is right in front of me, I don’t know what to do.